You deserve all the love, but this one isn’t yours to keep.

So, you’re into this guy. You enjoy spending time with him, witnessing his passion for things he excels at. You admire his smile when he’s immersed in his passions. You fall hard, yet he doesn’t reciprocate. You’re always the initiator, asking him out, sending emojis, tagging him in photos or videos you both enjoy. You try to rationalize being the first to make a move until it dawns on you that you’ve invested so much time and effort into someone who doesn’t reciprocate.

I understand. It’s disheartening when you realize you’re disappointing yourself, despite your hard work to become the person you are today – someone who has achieved more than you could have imagined. You’re successful, you pursue your passions, you find joy, and you inspire those around you. You’re intelligent and beautiful inside and out, and this one-sided love doesn’t suit you. No matter how much you try to justify it, you’re smarter than this.

So, you find yourself in tears, reminding yourself that you’re truly remarkable. You deserve more than one-sided love. That’s how we should view our dreams – as more than the excuses we tell ourselves. “I can’t do this,” “I’m not that great,” “I’m a mess,” “I think I’ve made a mistake,” “I’m not like her/him” – these narratives only hold us back, preventing us from stepping out of our comfort zones because we fear the unknown. Your mind may be conflicted, but if the voice in your head is negative, ignore it. Listen to the part of your brain that knows you’re capable and deserving of success. You deserve to pursue your passions and excel at them. You deserve recognition for your efforts and your ability to overcome obstacles. You’re significant, and don’t let those tiny negative voices convince you otherwise.

Whether it’s a person or just a negative inner voice telling you that you won’t find the right person, dream, or future, stop it. You’ve earned the right to choose what’s best for you. You’ve worked hard for it, so don’t let anything deter you.

You will find what you’re searching for – whether it’s a person, a dream, a goal, or your future. A person like you, driven, resilient, and beautiful, will flourish. Just wait and see.

We can overcome whatever doesn’t align with His plans. Don’t lose yourself over something temporary. This is just a bump in the road, not your final destination. Choose to believe this isn’t the end.